
I have to echo the comments of Marcie on the TC blog (I'm still unable to cross-post, my apologies for that). I had fooled around with Second Life a bit when it first came out and created an avatar but never entered the world. My husband and other friends are very much opposed to Second Life because it sucks the life out of you. I have to say I really enjoyed my first experience entering the world (campus island). I'm a novice of course but have always been building avatars for myself. These stand-in feel very much like me. I had a very intense feeling of presence in Second Life and must admit that my social skills are not improved in virtuality.
I had selected the most colorful avatar I could choose (without $) and am so far pleased with the Zultress Maven. She feels like me at 25 which is about right guaging her fine physique. I met another woman almost immediately who told me I was boring. I bumped into a man who was busily changing his appearance and two guys who were swimming and chatting together. The woman and I chatted via text which was really fun (for me I guess). I loved the way the avatar's hands pretended to type at the keyboard while I was. In fact the real-time responsiveness of the avatar is fantastic.
While I was examining the education board on the campus one of the swimmers flew up and snuck around the board to check me out. I ignored this and he returned to his buddy. They were using audio to communicate and I could also hear them speak. I much prefered being a third party and could ascertain that these two knew each other.
I'm still not sure of what to do in the world without some kind of role defined. However, I'm intrigued and would like to spend some time exploring. The graphics are terrific and there exist many groups to join. The social interaction still makes me nervous. I'm not at all comfortable approaching others in the new world but only time can tell how the Zultress will evolve.